This is my new site and blog thus I would like to formally introduce myself to you and you to the blog known as Cheating Spouses Software.

So you’re thinking this is going to be about programming?  Right?  Wrong.

What is this about then?

Well, maybe it is about programming, but not in the way you are thinking about things.  If you took the time to get to know me, then you’d know that I’m engaged.  And why not then start a kick ass blog about relationships!  I’ve known too many people that have failed.  Over and over.  They don’t intend to, but it happens.  And that’s because they’re working with the best that they have, which is themselves.  And how are they going to do anything other then what they know, if all they know is…..themselves.

They can’t.  It’s a fact.

Here I am going to offer my many different types of ideas and tips and whatevers on what you can do in your relationships to make them better.  Nobody is perfect, trust me.  My fiance makes sure to tell me that all the time. Bahaha.

I’m not the guru of relationships.  I know people.  And I know what people want.  And at the end of the day, it’s pretty simple, when you get to the root of it.

Where to start?

At the beginning I guess.  When I was younger, I always wanted to be in a relationship, but never found anyone that jazzed me up enough.  Maybe it was my need to find perfection while I was looking at all their flaws?  Don’t get me wrong, I dated.  And a lot.  I just never seemed to be content.  I’d date, but I wasn’t good at faking the fact that I didn’t really like them…and I wasn’t someone that could just date because they were hot.  Didn’t fly for me.  There had to be more.  A jeune ne se qua.

And I’ve had my heart broken.  Big time!  By a number of loves/lusts when I was super young.  Those teen throws we have…UGH!  Miss them.  And then there’s the first love.  Whoa, was I crushed by that!  My crazy ex who faked a suicide.  Doh!  Missed the signals there!  And then there was my divorce, which actually ended better then any of the rest of them.  Loved each other enough to let each other go.  We tried everything and weren’t able to make it work.  So, that was that.  We’re still friends and now their re-married and have a kick ass son.  I guess as I’ve gotten older, I’ve found better ways to deal with the issues at hand.

I still have a temper and my patience could be more robust, but people.  I get people.

Now we are back on point.  Thank God.  I didn’t know if I’d ever make it back from that tangent.

Side note: I have a couple friends that are still married to their high school sweet hearts.  How cool is that!  Then there’s my friend who’s getting married next month and he’s in his 40’s.  No judgement as we are all on our own path.  And who’s to say when the right time is that we meet that special someone?

The point of all this is over the years, my friends come to me for advice.  I give GREAT relationshiop advice.  It took me years to be able to follow my own, and I’m still not perfect.  But for others…I’m the best!  For real.  Ask my fiance, who will have friends call or email me on what to do in circumstances in their dating or marriage.

Maybe I should have been a therapist.  I guess I’ll get to do that here.

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